Change your habits
Change your life
Do you feel like there has to be more to life than this?
Do you feel that life is passing you by and you’re not making the most of it?
Are you stuck on the hamster wheel of life? Just a cog in a machine who never really feels like you have a meaningful purpose?
If so, like over 80% of the planet’s population – you’re right!
But the amazing news is that it’s completely within your power to do something about it.
My mission in life
I’m Fiona Gazzard and I’m a Transformational Mindset Mentor. I use a variety of tools and techniques, both practical and spiritual to help you regain clarity of purpose and create a future you can get excited about!
My mission is to help you discover who you really are and enable you to live your best life. To inspire you to find and share your life’s mission and passion. We all have them whether you realise it or not… even you.
Especially you.
My story
I know from personal experience that finding yourself can be a really challenging thing to do. Life and other people’s priorities can easily get in the way of your wants and needs.
I know this myself as I have spent most of my life trying to be someone else. Trying to be the person I thought everybody else wanted me to be.
And guess what? There were still people who didn’t like me. And the worst thing of all was that I didn’t much like myself either. Society’s expectation had smothered my tender heart with layers of ‘shoulds, oughts, and musts’. Trying to be who I thought everyone else wanted me to be was incredibly stressful.
Breakdown
So I suffered breakdown after breakdown, burned out on a regular basis. I suffered brain fog and lack of energy every day, and had no idea why, nor what I wanted from life. I thought I was chronically ill. Which, in a sense, I was.
For years I numbed my pain under a comfort blanket of food, anti-depressants, alcohol, and drugs. I hated myself, full of shame, thinking I wasn’t worth anything and that other people’s needs and wishes came before mine. In my mind, other people knew what was best for me better than I did, and the worst thing in the world was for me to disappoint them. What I thought or felt didn’t really matter at all. So I pushed it all down deep inside.
Of course, nobody had any clue that I felt this way. I either hid from the world or was REALLY good at looking ‘well’ when I was able to show up.
Self-employment
Eventually, I’d had enough of employment after burning out for the millionth time and decided to start my own business. But I didn’t know myself well enough to be able to know what skills and qualities I had to offer the world.
When I launched myself into the self-employed world, I was lucky enough to be able to go into business with my husband, building and writing websites for businesses. And that developed invaluable skills in my Zone of Excellence. I have always had a talent for writing and making things look pretty and these were very useful skills for building websites.
What I also found really interesting in my copywriting role was getting to the heart of what somebody’s skills were. What was their USP? What set their hearts on fire about their business? I have always been a good listener and problem solver. But in my fug of self-loathing and self-criticism, I couldn’t acknowledge those skills in myself.
I needed something of my own
But I always wanted to do something for myself, something that wasn’t my husband’s skillset, something that was mine and mine alone. To use my natural talents to benefit the world in a meaningful way.
There were times even when I thought that network marketing was the answer. After all, I am a natural networker and people person. I find it easy to relate to most people and I can see the beauty in everyone. Especially in those who cannot see it in themselves. But that was just working my ass off for little pay yet again, only to build someone else’s dream and not my own.
I was full of unrealised potential and people were always telling me how much I’d helped them by listening or suggesting a direction or action that I thought might help them. And that I offer damn good advice! But I couldn’t see that talent in myself.
That quality of deep listening and empathy.
To hear and validate people’s pain.
My journey of self-discovery
I’ve been on such an incredible journey in the last 5 years or so, I’ve learned so much about myself, overcoming limiting beliefs and blocks, decluttering events from my childhood that have held me back.
And now I want to pass on that wisdom to you and help you live your best life too.
To help you move forward with your life in ways you never have before.
To acknowledge your own passions and talents so you can decide what you want your own impact on the world and your legacy to be.
I see so many people suffering mentally and emotionally in the same ways I did, whether that was me from 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, or even 15 years ago.
Whether that was me trying to struggle in a corporate world, the proverbial square peg in a round hole…
Or the outwardly confident business person hiding behind somebody else’s skills or products (because I was terrified to reveal my own talents out of fear)…
Or the person navigating mental health difficulties, unable to come back to myself because I had never actually met the real me.
If you relate to any of this then I would love the opportunity to help bring you home to yourself and live a more fulfilling life that just keeps getting better and better.
A message of hope
If you are tired of feeling undervalued, underappreciated, feeling like everybody else’s afterthought, then it’s time you started putting a priority on yourself.
And I can show you how. I wholeheartedly believe that every single human being on this planet has the potential to contribute in a meaningful way.
Nobody else is coming to rescue you, only you can rescue yourself. And I can show you how.
Your impossible future is within your grasp.